Why do women want to be seen as liberated sometimes, but want to act like a helpless female other times?

Well do you want to be dominated during ? I don't mean anything crazy like . But I mean are you looking for a person who has a strong drive or what? I don't think its about having it both ways. Its just that feels different for women as it does for men. And until you have experienced as a woman does you will never understand why women like to be dominated during the act.